by Rose Reif | Mar 20, 2019 | Counseling for Spousal Caregivers, Mental Wellness and Disability
If your partner has had a stroke, you may be feeling lost in your marriage. It can feel like you’ve shifted into the role of nurse, or even parent, to this person who used to be your equal. You may wonder if they’ll ever really be your partner again. Of course, you...
by Rose Reif | Feb 13, 2019 | Counseling for Spousal Caregivers, Mental Wellness and Disability
Your partner has acquired a disability like brain injury or Aphasia. It may feel like your daily planner should read: Watch partner struggle to do something independently. Suffer silently inside as you imagine the worst possible outcome. Also visualize how much easier...
by Rose Reif | Jan 9, 2019 | Counseling for Spousal Caregivers, Mental Wellness and Disability
There’s a common complaint among partners caring for a disabled partner: “I’m so exhausted” It frustrates my counseling clients who have a disabled spouse. They hate that they can’t rebound from this unshakable tiredness. At a time when they need to be at their...
by Rose Reif | Nov 21, 2018 | Counseling for Spousal Caregivers, Mental Wellness and Disability
After your partner acquires a disability, routine becomes your friend. Out of the ordinary days can leave you and your spouse both feeling irritable and exhausted. Sadly, that’s true even on special days like Thanksgiving or other holidays. Many of my counseling...
by Rose Reif | Jan 6, 2016 | Counseling for Spousal Caregivers, Mental Wellness and Disability
Why hire a personal care aide? When I meet with spousal caregivers for therapy, they often describe being afraid of leaving their partner alone. I understand what scares them. When your spouse acquires a disability because of stroke, TBI, or other medical event, they...